Hotel Sex for One
Your body, your self, your pleasure. Do you make the time to enjoy it, to really luxuriate in all the nuances? If you are lucky, you can find the unrushed privacy necessary in your own home. But it is likely that life may be too intrusive, too stressful, too exhausting, too filled with excuses to thoroughly indulge. A private sexual retreat for one to a hotel may give you the space you need. Some may think this a silly idea, but others will exploit it for the opportunity it is.
Indulge yourself. Your hotel sex date with yourself is not just about masturbation. Sensuality can be explored in many ways. Pamper yourself. Take a bubble bath; book a massage at the hotel spa; go for a walk and explore the sights around your hotel; order favourite foods and a nice glass of wine from room service; read a book by an author you love. The possibilities are endless. Just make sure to concentrate on your self, your needs, your favourites. Be completely selfish and enjoy the fact you do not have to compromise or negotiate.
Explore yourself. In the beginning, there was only you…and it was good. Take the time to reconnect with your sexual self and those early days of discovery. Do not assume. Do not let your inhibitions get in your way. Be open minded and experiment. You may want to bring some of the outside in (written erotica, sex toys, hotel porn) or you may just want to concentrate on your own body and how it feels. What turns you on? What feels good? Who you are sexually today may excite and titillate you in ways you didn’t expect if you are open to exploration.
Pleasure yourself. Masturbation is all about pleasure. It is not about reproduction or emotional commitments. It is a complete and wonderfully selfish act. Remember that this night of hotel sex for one is all about you and your fulfillment. Let go of any negative emotions you may have about masturbation. Let go of your discomfort, embarrassment, or guilt. If you need help doing so, there are some great resources out there dedicated to the joys of self love for men and women . You will return home more relaxed, more satisfied and with knowledge gained that can be shared with your partner for even better sex together.
Come celebrate yourself, your sexuality, your pleasure. And remember practice makes perfect.
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