Rekindle the Passion with Hotel Sex
Time passes and relationships can grow stagnant, couples can grow apart. Priorities shift and often your partner ends up much lower on the list than they should. Sometimes it can be hard to remember what brought you together, the fires of the past.
Hotel sex is not a quick fix for a relationship gone stale, but it can be a very fun part of the solution. Hotel sex creates a bubble around the two of you apart from the rest of the world and gives you space to light those fires once more. Here are some of the ways hotel sex can be used to rekindle the passion: Plan a surprise. Surprise your partner with a sexy night away or produce unexpected moments or accessories once you are in the room together. Either way, these kinds of surprises are the best kind. They give you opportunity after opportunity to demonstrate your passion in a very visceral, real fashion.
Remember the past. When trying to rebuild a relationship it is often helpful to go back to the beginning. Remember what attracted you in those early days. Remember some of the hot moments from your shared lives. What got the blood pumping, the juices flowing? Hotel sex offers the space to recreate your raunchy and romantic blasts from the past.
Make it a second honeymoon. In the spirit of returning to the sensuality of your early days, hotel sex (especially an extended getaway in a romantic locale) is a chance for a second honeymoon, a new beginning. First honeymoons are indulgent, sensual and all about the two of you and the excitement of starting a shared life together. Revisit these feelings in a second honeymoon and make your sexy hotel getaway richer and more meaningful.
Plan for the future. While remembering the past is helpful for fanning the flames, planning for your joint future can keep that fire on a slow burn well after you have checked out. As you lie post coital, limbs entangled, pulses subsiding, faces and bodies still flushed with recent pleasure – this is a moment of openness and opportunity. Seize it. Indulge in pillow talk of what comes next – tomorrow, next year, twenty years from now. Build an image of your joint future together beginning with who you both are in this moment.
Be willing to unlearn and relearn everything. Revisiting your history is important, but only use this as a starting point. You and your partner have lived, have changed, have grown over the years both together and apart. To make hotel sex really hot, to jump start those engines once more, you need to be prepared to unlearn everything you thought you knew about each other and truly begin again. Hotel sex can provide that safe and protected space where you can be vulnerable to each other. Talk openly, listen without judgment and come together in new and exciting ways.
Listen. Learn. Love.
When done right, hotel sex is the best part of couples’ therapy. Enjoy!
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